Life without a Girlfriend is cool...

Reasons why Life without a Girlfriend is cool...


1. You can stare at any girl....

2. You don`t have to spend money on her.

3. You won`t get boring result in ur board papers.

4. No girlfriend ,no emotional blackmailing

5.If you don`t have a girlfriend ,she can`t dump u.

6.Having a girlfriend is hot, not having a girlfriend is automatically cool,and every ones loves to be a cool guy...

7. This can be more to life than just waiting for the bloody phone to ring .

8. You won`t have to tolerate someone else defining ,"right "and "wrong "for u.

9.Girlfriend can get so possessive that you can`t do anything according ur wishes anymore.

10.You can buy gifts for mom ,dad ,sis or grandpa instead of
a girlfriend and have a happier family life..

11.You won`t have to waste paper writing love letters .No more endless waiting for your date to arrive at some weird shop place ....

12. You can have more friends ,as u will have more time for them.

13.You won`t have to see boring love stories instead of sports.

14.You won`t have to tell lie to anybody and therefore ,u`ll sin less.

15.You can have good nights sleep .. no need to dream about her.

16. You won`t have to fight over having a " Special "friend with your folks .

17. No nonstop nonsense

18. You won`t have drown in the pool of her tears....

19. The list is endless...........

To All Guys don`t worry be happy !
Be cool.....

The Blessing of Unanswered Prayers

I asked for strength that I might achieve;
I was made weak that I might learn humbly to obey.

I asked for health that I might do greater things;
I was given infirmity that I might do better things.

I asked for riches that I might be happy;
I was given poverty that I might be wise.

I asked for power that I might have the praise of men;
I was given weakness that I might feel the need of God.

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life;
I was given life that I might enjoy all things.

I got nothing that I had asked for,
but eveything that I had hoped for.

Almost despite myself my unspoken prayers were answered;
I am, among all men, most richly blessed.
(FROM~Unknown Confederate soldier)

KEEP STOKIN'!

'LET US GO OVER TO THE OTHER SIDE.' MARK 4:37 NIV


Sometimes you only learn to swim by getting thrown into the deep end. When that happens you discover that:

a.if you let it, your fear will take you under

b.you can only tread water for so long

c.when you get to a certain point
there's no turning back, you have to keep going. It's fatal to stop or give up in the middle of the process

d.what God has put within you (the air in the lungs) will sustain you and keep you afloat if only you learn to relax, trust God and keep swimming!


If you're really serious about getting to the other side, you've got to take what's in front of you and keep pushing it behind you. In other words, keep strokin'! YOu might be crying while you're swimming but keep strokin'. YOur heart may be about to come out of your chest but keep strokin.' It's when you feel backed into a corner with nowhere to go that you've to reach down, take hold of what God put within you and keep strokin'

Sometimes you have to rise up in faith and fight your way through, confident that God is on your side. The waters you're in don't determine your destiny; they can either carry you over or take you under. Your faith has got to rise up and fight your fear. If you quit, God can do nothing more for you. So whether you're doing breaststroke, the backstroke or some other kind of stroke nobody's even heard of, keep strokin'!
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

~CHRISTIAN LIVING~

Lead me to the rock that is higher than I, for you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the enemy. (Psalm 61:2-3, ESV)

It can be difficult if you're a new Christian and your parents aren't, especially if you're still living at home. They just don't have the same priorities you have. You want to go to a Bible study at church but they expect you to baby-sit while they go to a movie. You know the Bible says to honor your mother and father--but what if your parents make it hard to honor God?

In the Bible, David experienced a similar disregard and opposition. Growing up, he was the forgotten son among many brothers. (See 1 Samuel 16:11). And as he rose to prominence in Israel, he was often on the run. While he was a man who had a strong desire to serve God, he lived through many years in which he was at the mercy of others.

So how did he get by? Psalm 61 holds the answer. In verse one David begins by calling out to God, "Hear my cry, O God" (ESV). The second verse goes on, "from the end of the earth I call to you when my heart is faint" (ESV). At times, David felt as far removed from God as was possible. And yet he knew God was still able to hear him.

"Lead me to the rock that is higher than I, for you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the enemy" (Psalm 61:2-3, ESV). This is an amazing verse, because even in uncertain, unsteady times we have a rock solid foundation--a refuge where we can find shelter.

Whether you're oppressed or opposed by actual enemies, an arrogant boss or parents who just don't understand, God is your rock and foundation, holding you steady no matter what. In any situation, God is there. Whoever seems to control your life, it is ultimately held by God.

The secret to getting by while living under your parents' roof is to know that you're also living under God's roof. "Let me dwell in your tent forever! Let me take refuge under the shelter of your wings!" (Psalm 61:4, ESV). So even if your parents may be holding you back from meeting God at church, they can't remove Him from your life altogether. There's nothing that says you can't worship God from the privacy of your own bedroom anytime you want.

It's very possible to honor both God and your parents. And in the following sections, you'll see more ways you can do this.

Consider It
Read through all of Psalm 61 and think about the following questions:

* Have there been times when it felt like your parents were hindering your relationship with God?
* How did you react in those times?
* Is there a better way you could have responded?
* What are some others ways you can "dwell" in God's house even while in your parents' home?

Apply It

Go back to Psalm 61:6-7: "Prolong the life of the king; may his years endure to all generations! May he be enthroned forever before God; appoint steadfast love and faithfulness to watch over him!" This is easy to say when the king (or a parent) is good and honors God. But did you know David prayed this when the king was trying to kill him? Read 1 Samuel 24 and 26 to see what David did when he had two opportunities to retaliate.

Now have you ever prayed these things (Psalm 61:6-7) for your parents? Have you ever prayed that God would bless their lives in the same way He blessed yours? Make it a point to add your parents to your prayer list from now on.

Express It
Praise God for the work He's done in your life and the relationship you have with Him. Ask Him for wisdom in knowing how to honor Him while also honoring your parents. Pray for your parents too. Pray that they would be curious about what's different in your life, and that they would be open to hearing about God.
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

THE SPIRIT-FILLED LIFE

“Be filled with the Spirit.” Eph 5:18 NKJV

The new birth doesn’t automatically eliminate the old nature. We live in bodies that are susceptible to sin, so we must stay filled with God’s Spirit. Paul says: “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh” (Gal 5:16 NAS). Then he gives us a familiar illustration: “Do not be drunk with wine…but be filled with the Spirit.” Notice these things:
First, Paul’s talking about yielding control of our life to God’s Spirit. When someone’s drunk we say they’re “under the influence.” Second, Paul’s statement is a command. “Be filled.” He didn’t say, “If you’d like to,” or “It would be nice.” No, if you are going to please God then you must be constantly filled with His Spirit. Third, this applies to every believer, not just a select few. Sometimes we look at someone and say, “They love Jesus so much; why can’t I be like that?” You can be like that! The difference is the filling of the Spirit, not the fact that they have something you don’t. Fourth, you can’t fill yourself. Like filling your car, you must regularly go for a gas refill. And for that, you go to the gas station! “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled” (Mt 5:6 NIV). Are you hungry? Are you thirsty? Then go to Him who fills you up. Fifth, it’s a continuous action. You can’t run your car on a single tank of gas; you’ve got to keep going back to the source. The Spirit’s filling is a dynamic, moment-by-moment experience. Why is it that way? Because we live in a world that depletes us spiritually and contend with a carnal nature that seeks to defeat us. So, “Be filled with the Spirit.”
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

BE WILLING TO START SMALL

“For who hath despised the day of small things?” Zec 4:10

D. L. Moody became a spokesman for God and a changer of nations. But if you’d met him early in life you wouldn’t have thought it was possible. Although he was raised in church, he was spiritually ignorant. When he moved to Boston, he began attending a Bible-preaching church. In April of 1855, a Sunday school teacher came to the shoe store where he worked and led him to Christ. A month later, when he applied to become a member of that church, it was clear that he knew nothing about the Bible. One of his Sunday school teachers later wrote, “I’ve never met anyone who seemed less likely to become a Christian of clear and decided views, much less fill any place of public usefulness.” So they asked him to take a year of Bible study. During his interview with the membership committee a year later, his answers were only slightly improved. He was barely literate and used atrocious grammar. Nobody on that church committee thought God would ever use him. But they were wrong. And the people who say you will never amount to anything for God, are wrong too!
Every oak tree starts as an acorn. Jesus began in a stable but He didn’t stay there. David was a shepherd boy with a slingshot but he became Israel’s greatest king. Joseph was a prisoner but he became prime minister. Understand this: you are a seed capable of producing a harvest for God. So take all that you have and all that you are, place it into God’s hands and be willing to start small.
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

RVEALING & REMOVING

“Save me, O Lord, from lying lips.” Ps 120:2 NIV

Armand Hammer died at ninety-two. USA Today once called him “a giant of capitalism and confidant of world leaders.” That was his reputation, but not his character. After his death, the truth became known. Harvard-educated political scientist Edward Epstein wrote Dossier: The Secret History of Armand Hammer, in which he reported that Hammer got his start laundering money for the Soviet government, then hired ghostwriters to write fictitious autobiographies of his life. He got more money through a string of broken marriages. He allowed his father, who was a physician, to go to prison for a botched abortion Hammer himself had performed. He neglected his only son. He had no friends at Occidental Petroleum where “he fired his top executives as though they were errand boys.” When his brother Victor died, he filed a claim of $667,000 against the $700,000 estate, rather than dispersing it to Victor’s children and nursing home-bound wife. When Hammer died, his son Julian did not attend his funeral. Neither did the members of his two brothers’ families. And neither did anyone else. His pallbearers were his chauffeur, his male nurse, and other personal employees.

The Psalmist, who was acutely aware of his own shortcomings, wrote, “Save me, O Lord, from lying lips.” When you pray this way, get ready for God to do two things:

(1) Reveal. God will pinpoint areas of your life that you must deal with.
(2) Remove. Some things will be taken away. Will it be quick or easy? Probably not. But God will strengthen you until these battles are won and the character of Christ is revealed in you.
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

TOO PERFECT FOR THIER OWN GOOD

“Train up a child in the way he should go.” Pr 22:6

The words “the way he should go” mean: “The way best suited to your child’s unique make-up, abilities, and God-given personality.” Perfectionism violates these characteristics, encouraging someone to be something he wasn’t intended to become in order to gain approval. To help overcome this:

(1) Convince yourself that you’re valuable to God because of who you are,
not because of what you accomplish.
(2) Understand that it’s impossible to complete every assignment without
errors. Think about mistakes as opportunities to experiment, clarify personal
values, learn and improve thinking and decision-making skills.
(3) Share your mistakes and poor decisions with a good friend. Discuss your
flaws and how you’ve grown through them.
(4) Realize that perfectionists get “tunnel vision,” locking themselves into limited and limiting options for problem-solving. There’s more than one way to solve a problem, organize a project, and get things done. Discuss some of these other ways as a means of expanding perceptions and introducing greater flexibility into your life.
(5) Celebrate the effort – not just the result. Be thankful for things unrelated to achievement, such as generosity, honesty and kindness.
(6) Reduce pressure. Do you really need all those advanced courses, or to participate in every extracurricular activity? Perfectionism is “too much of a good thing.” It starts early and people don’t “grow out of it” naturally. Helping reduce it systematically, will improve your quality of life. Or maybe someone else’s.
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

HOW TO HANDLE CRITICISM

“I cannot come down.” Ne 6:3 NKJV

Nehemiah teaches us three important truths about handling criticism:
(1) Expect it. When spectators watch a race, where do they focus their attention? On the front runners! Someone said, “Criticism is something you can avoid easily – by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” But those three options don’t work. So Nehemiah answered his critics, “I am doing a great work, so that I cannot come down.” Don’t step down to the level of your critics.
(2) Evaluate it. “Sanballat…sent to me, saying, ‘Come, let us meet…But they thought to do me harm’” (Ne 6:2 NKJV). When people say, “I’m going to tell you something for your own good,” often they’ve nothing good to tell you. When you’re criticized, ask yourself:

(a) “Who criticized me?” “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful” (Pr 27:6 NKJV). Has this person earned the right to speak into your life?
(b) “Why was this criticism given? Out of a personal hurt or for my benefit?” Hurting people hurt people; so maintain the right attitude, looking for the grain of truth, making the necessary changes, and taking the high road.
(3) Outlive it. When Nehemiah’s friends told him to run and hide, he replied,
“I will not…So the wall was finished…in fifty-two days…when all our enemies heard of it…they perceived that this work was done by our God” (Ne 6:11-16 NKJV). Sometimes you’re in more danger from the counsel of your friends than you are from the criticism of your enemies. That’s when you must know who you are, what God’s called you to do, and outlive the criticism!
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")

HINTS ABOUT HEAVEN

“I go to prepare a place for you.” Jn 14:2 NKJV

When it comes to heaven, the Bible gives us just enough information to whet our appetite but not satisfy our curiosity. Here are three hints about heaven:
(1) “There shall be no more curse” (Rev 22:3 NKJV). Unlike Eden, Satan
won’t be there to tempt us so we won’t stumble. We’ll be at our best – forever. Every good New Year’s resolution we’ve ever made will be a reality. Hooray!
(2) “God will wipe away every tear…there shall be no more death, nor sorrow”
(Rev 21:4 NKJV). No failing health, grieving hearts, or broken homes. God will surely put the undertaker out of business.
(3) “His servants shall serve Him” (Rev 22:3 NKJV). What is service, if not
productive work? Jesus said those who are faithful over few things now, will rule over many things then. In the first paradise God gave Adam and Eve responsibilities; will He do less in the next one? “Of the increase of His government and peace there will be no end” (Isa 9:7 NKJV). God’s new world will be marked by “increase.” Increased planets? Increased colors, music? Seems likely. What does the Creator do but create? Will some of us serve then, in the capacity we serve now? Couldn’t earthly assignments hint at heavenly ones? One thing’s for sure: you’ll love it – never weary, selfish or defeated; clear mind, tireless muscles, unhindered joy.
Heaven is a perfect place of perfected people with our perfect Lord. And here’s the best part: Jesus promised, “When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am” (Jn 14:3 NLT).
(From the book "Word 4u 2day")